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Monday, January 26, 2015

SEX AND DEPLETING RESPECT FOR AFRICAN WOMEN-FOLKS; WHAT WOMEN MUST DO TO ROLL BACK THE MANTRA


Perhaps these pervasive lifestyle were imported or it is a sort of generational evolution! Moral probity is what I am talking about especially as it concerned African women vis-à-vis sex. African women folks appear to have thrown cautions to the wind as they no longer respect the value-laden perspective of Africa that places them as a huge treasure – too dignified to come cheap. The cultural sanctity of Africa is not in doubt but it doesn’t seems to hold nor direct our lives anymore.
But even our religions disapproves sexual impudence, one can quickly recollect that both Quran and the bible impugn sexual intercourse outside the covenant of marriage, a portion of the Quran says ‘’… And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way’’, in same spirit, Corinthians 6:18 enjoins ‘’ flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body…’’.
So reinforcing is the African cultural value that raises sex to a height of sacredness and human dignity suppose not practise except within the context of marriage. Many African cultures recognising that sexual urge is far compelling however, encourages early marriage as an anecdote to sexual decadence and its addendum civil crisis like rape, harassment and what have you. Sadly, one does not need an observation pill in our society of today to recognise that even in the presence of this religious-cultural cautions, sex is absolutely free, abundant and only condom goes for a pittance sum – of course affordable by even the impoverished.
Alas food prices hitherto are all time high!
People in category of septuagenarian witnessing the unbundled, pardon, de-regularise sex sector will say ‘’how do we get here’’ in a tone that wish time could turn back to when the society is innocent, pure and prosperous. Those time when you can have your wife stay with a friend without you looking back and thinking about how his six pack of which you are lacking will lure her, those years when mother in-law, wont seduce son-in-law with bump short in her daughters home, those days when no African woman will concede to a fuck-mate (fling) relationship, those past years when our negroes women still give a damn about self-dignity. I say ‘’ African society has turn against itself, and everyone is a victim’’.
Yoruba in their wisdom posits: ‘’kokunrin to atorin, kobinrin to atorin, kawo eni ti o lomi leyin ese jura won lo’’. They normally say this to warn women against sexual promiscuity – in particular to say that women bear consequence of immorality more than men does. 
Today, if one gather 10 women, hardly will one find any which is sexually virtuous and still virgin: virgin has become more scarce than Gold, surprising! Women have made sex cheap so much so that men don’t have to lure with sweet words nor expensive gift. Pussy is worth nothing again but a smooth hole, easy to come-by. Have witnessed a scenario when at a friend birthday bash, a strange guy met a strange lady at the party and the next thing, they are having sex behind the stage backdrop, ensconced in the ecstasy, the lady start to moan and that drew attention of party attendees. The issue here is not them being caught but the deep embarrassment that chase the lady away with her clothe wrapped over her face and forgetting her shoes while the guy came back to the dance-floor with his ego revved up – women always loose right? – You are damn right! Another was a woman caught with his husband driver doing the filthy thing at their home garage; the man would end up divorcing the woman. I can recount several other ridiculous instances and am sure you have gotten a handful of experiences too. I ask, what is happening to our women, I mean our African women? Where did they import this bizarre habit from? Absolutely, this pervasive culture is foreign to Africa and is ruining our family. It is damaging our society and depleting our erstwhile strong spirituality – genuine love is going extinct, rape is on the increase and now incest is a new but huge injury to Africa. It is sardonic albeit surprising that durex condom placed Nigerian women as third most unfaithful in its recent research on sexual infidelity. Could this be true considering the attitude of western cultures towards sex? And should this be true, Nigerian (African) women must buckle up and retrace their steps towards abiding by the time-honoured truism that says ‘’ A virtuous woman is worth far more than ten thousands rubies, more than an ocean of treasures!
African Women are meant to be treasured. African Women are supposed to be scarce to get down with. African Women are supposed to be a bastion of character. African Women are supposed to be too precious to toy with and too self-willed and strong to be turned to a punching bag. Meanwhile, contrary to the afore-said, African women of today have rendered themselves to be considered as just a mere, senseless and feeble being that are easy to control and cheap to get down with.
It is important to note that men shower attention, care and profound respect on women when seeking to get down with them but become bossy, uncaring and indifferent as soon as they have their way.
Against the aforementioned I submit that African women folks caused themselves the fall from position of respect and awe and if they ever care to elevate themselves to their rightful position of honour and dignity, they must by any means possible make sex scarce and real hard to get…

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