And I will explore this topic with my intelligent friend, Nnamdi. Inspite of his depth, he will think am going crazy. Maybe he his right! But I think am just a realist that thinks a little.
I am obliged to share this thought publicly because some parents are at best very annoying. They are not appreciative enough to nurture and cherish their children. They live in the illusion that that their children owe them their lives simply because they gave birth to them.
It is a fact that the intention behind every child bearing is selfish. It is always for any or combination of this purpose: to own a soulful biological identity, to have souls to answer to ones call, to have soul to take care of someone at old age, to meet a societal expectations. Yes, those are the purpose! You will realise it is more selfish when you probe deep to know that all birth are not consented by the child. The willingness and the sweet mating that leads to birth are all privileges of the parents. A child is only a victim of successful sex. Lolx!
