“I was
studying Law at the Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU), Ife. I am of the 1995
set, but I had to leave school in 2001 because of pressures. People were too
harsh on me; they did not understand me at all. When I was in school, the
school authorities got to know that I slept with my fellow male students. There
was also an incident when I had to be admitted in the hospital. I was bleeding from
the anus and I had bad pile arising from sexual intercourse.
“When the
school got to know the kind of person I was, they sent me to meet a Guidance Counsellor,
Professor Roger Makanjuola, who was the Vice Chancellor, who took care of me.
You know he is a renowned Psychiatrist. He handled all issues relating to
psychiatry with me.
He said I was
okay and that nothing was wrong with my preferences, sexual-wise. He said it
was just because I lived in an environment that did not tolerate that kind of behaviour.
He recommended that I should meet another Guidance Counsellor but I did not
follow up. Even at that, there seems to be very little assistance one can get medically
in Nigeria.
“After a
time, I tried going back to school but they told me I have stayed too long away
from the system. I applied to change over to University of Lagos (UNILAG) and
OAU authorities promised to assist with my transcripts, but they did not send
it early, that was how I lost the chance of changing to UNILAG. I eventually dropped
out of school.”
“I know this will shock you but I started
having sex at the age of six. I had this cousin of mine who used to bring his friend
to our house. He was the first to make love to me.
“Since I was
small, I realized that I had this feeling that I was a woman. I used to paint
myself up and wear girls’ clothes. Nobody stopped or cautioned me. My mother later
died when I was 11 years old. My father has other wives and no one particularly
bothered about me. I am the last child of my mother, she had four of us"
"I
started having sex at the age of six, but no one in my family noticed the problem
until I was 14 years old. My father is a Professor of Education. My mother was
also a Professor in the same discipline. When my dad got to know, I think he
was among the people who made Professor Makanjuola to examine me.
“The truth is
that I had gone too far, and I don’t want to talk about my family in this
issue. I have slept with a lot of people but my problem is that they were not
faithful to me. They were not committed; we just have sex and they go away. I
wish to have a committed partner that is why I have been trying to get a real
lover, one that will care about me. In the alternative, I will like to relocate
abroad where my kind exist.
In the
University, I had several lovers but they were not serious. I have several men
that I sleep with, I won’t mention their names. They cut across the low and
highly placed, just let’s leave it at that. What I want is a committed partner.
If I had a choice between getting cured and going for a surgery that will
change my sex to a woman, I will prefer becoming a full woman.
“I am already
a trans-sexual, the difference between me and other homosexuals are that while
they just have the preference for sleeping with fellow men, I feel that I am a woman;
I feel that someone should be making love to me the way men do to women. Since
I started having sex, I am usually the female, the dormant partner. But do you know
that right now, I need two things; a lover that is committed to me or help me
to relocate out of this country,” he said.
This
interview was 15, October 2003, he left for Netherlands few months later
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